COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE AND FAMILY LAW IN FLORIDA. No matter how you look at it, divorce and family law matters are difficult to go through. Expectations of stability are shattered,

mistrust grows, and bills pile up. And then the litigation begins. Attorneys file and serve petitions, counterpetitions, requests to produce, and motions to compel. Each party hires dueling mental health experts to convince a judge that he or she should have more time with the children. Privacy is eliminated as each party’s life is probed and publicly questioned so that one side may gain a tactical advantage.

But there is a different way. A more civilized way. And it is called Collaborative Family Law (also known as Collaborative Divorce or Collaborative Practice).

We are a Collaborative law firm dedicated to helping people resolve personal disputes without destroying their families. We encourage the use of the Collaborative Family Law model in divorce, child custody, child support, alimony, post-judgment, prenuptial, and most other family law cases.  Further, Adam B. Cordover is an internationally-recognized leader in Collaborative Practice, a trainer who teaches other professionals how to help families Collaboratively, and author of an upcoming American Bar Association book on Collaborative Law.

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What is a Florida Parenting Plan? Creating a Bright Future.

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If you are facing divorce, understanding a Florida parenting plan is one of the most important steps you can take to protect your children, your privacy, and your peace of mind.  The video and transcript below discusses parenting plans and how Collaborative Divorce can be a better pathway to develop one.

Quick Answer

A Florida parenting plan is a written document required in every divorce or family law matter involving kids that explains how you and your co-parent will raise your children after separation, including decision-making and time-sharing.

Summary Box / Key Takeaways

  • A parenting plan is required in every Florida divorce involving minor children
  • It covers decision-making and time-sharing schedules
  • You can customize the plan to fit your family’s needs
  • It helps reduce conflict by creating clear expectations
  • Collaborative Divorce offers a private, structured way to create a thoughtful plan

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What Is Collaborative Divorce?

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If you are exploring Collaborative Divorce in Florida, you are likely looking for a way to protect your privacy, preserve your wealth, and avoid a judge controlling your future.  The video and transcript below explains how it works and why many professionals in Tampa Bay and throughout Florida choose this approach.

Quick Answer

Collaborative Divorce is a private, out-of-court process where you and your spouse work with your own lawyers and a professional team to reach a resolution without fighting in court.

Key Takeaways

  • Collaborative Divorce keeps your personal and financial details out of the public record
  • You and your spouse remain in control of the outcome, not a judge
  • Each spouse has their own lawyer for independent legal advice
  • The process uses a team approach, including a Facilitator and Financial Professional
  • If the process breaks down, the Collaborative attorneys must withdraw
  • About 85% of Florida Collaborative cases in a 2014–2024 analysis reached full resolution
  • It is especially well-suited for professionals who value privacy, efficiency, and control

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How Do I Divorce In Florida?

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Quick Answer

The main ways to divorce in Florida are litigation, mediation, and Collaborative Divorce, and the right choice depends on how much privacy, control, and cooperation you want in the process. In the video below, I walk you through these options, and the full transcript is provided beneath it for your convenience.

Summary Box / Key Takeaways

  • Litigation is public, slow, and controlled by a judge
  • Mediation is private and generally best for short-term marriages or simple finances
  • Collaborative Divorce keeps everything private with you and your spouse in control of decisions
  • About 85 percent of Florida Collaborative cases reach full resolution
  • Choosing the right process can shape your financial and personal future

If you are like many professionals, business owners, or executives in Tampa Bay and throughout Florida, you are not just looking for a divorce. You are looking for a thoughtful, private way to move forward without a judge controlling the outcome or your personal life becoming part of the public record.  The video below discusses the different ways you can divorce in Florida.

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How Long Does Collaborative Divorce Take in Florida?

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If you are considering a Collaborative Divorce, one of your first questions is likely about timing. “How long does collaborative divorce take?” You want clarity, but you also want privacy, control, and a process that protects your family and your financial future in a timely manner.

Quick Answer: How Long Does Collaborative Divorce Take?

According to a recent study of nearly 300 Collaborative Family Law matters in Florida, approximately 30% concluded in 3 months or less, 60% in 6 months or less, and 90% in 12 months or less

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Why Cordover Advises Divorce Clients to Avoid Income Withholding Orders

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Florida Income Withholding Orders (“IWOs”) are the default method for paying child support and alimony.  However, if you are a doctor, lawyer, executive, business owner, or other professional reaching an agreement through Collaborative Divorce or another method, you may be better off avoiding IWOs.

If you have helped build your family’s wealth in Tampa Bay or anywhere in Florida, you likely value privacy, joint control of outcome with your spouse (rather than a judge), and efficiency. The last thing you want is unnecessary government involvement in your financial life when you and your spouse have already reached a thoughtful agreement.

Let’s talk about why.

Quick Answer

In Florida, Income Withholding Orders are required by default for child support and often used for alimony, but when you reach a voluntary agreement through a private process like Collaborative Divorce, you can usually choose to exchange payments directly and avoid unnecessary employer involvement and bureaucratic complications.

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Cordover Presents to CP Canada on Practical Use of Collaborative Divorce Statistics

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On February 5, 2026, Adam B. Cordover presented to CP Canada, Canada’s national Collaborative Practice organization, on the topic “Going Beyond Statistics: What Florida’s Collaborative Practice Survey Outcomes Mean and How to Replicate It.” The presentation was part of a broader conversation about how Collaborative Practice can strengthen its credibility and long-term sustainability through thoughtful use of real-world data.

Cordover co-presented with Dr. Randy Heller of Nova Southeastern University. Together, they co-authored the article “Statistics on Collaborative Divorce in Florida,” published in Volume LV, Issue 1 (2025) of the Florida Bar Family Law Section Commentator Magazine. Their work reflects a decade-long effort conducted by the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals to better understand how Collaborative Matters actually resolve in practice.

Why Florida Invested in Long-Term Data Collection

The presentation began by explaining why Florida undertook sustained data collection in the first place. For many years, conversations about Collaborative Practice relied heavily on anecdotes. At the same time, judges often only heard about Collaborative cases when they failed, not when they quietly and discreetly resolved. Florida’s survey was designed to help fill that gap by providing credible information that supports informed decision-making by clients, professionals, and institutions.

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Families Don’t Belong In Court

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Families don’t belong in court, especially when privacy, dignity, and the best interests of children matter to you. Yet for decades, lawyers have treated the courtroom as the default place to resolve divorce.

Court is built to impose an outcome after pitting parties against each other. Divorce is about navigating a family transition. Those are not the same thing, and when we confuse them, families often pay the price.

Quick Answer

Families don’t belong in court because the adversarial system escalates conflict, makes private matters public, and allows a judge to impose life-shaping decisions.  It is a terrible forum if you want to protect privacy, preserve dignity, or support children during a family transition.

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Free Florida CLE for Lawyers: Learn When to Refer Clients to Collaborative Divorce

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Collaborative Divorce offers Florida lawyers, regardless of practice area or professional setting, a private and discreet referral option for clients facing divorce, and you can earn free Florida Bar CLE credit while learning how to determine when that referral makes sense.

As a lawyer, you are often the first professional a client turns to when divorce becomes unavoidable. When that client is a lawyer, physician, executive, business owner, LGBTQ+ professional, public figure, the stakes are higher. Courtroom exposure, public filings, and escalated conflict can affect careers, reputations, businesses, and families in lasting ways.

Many lawyers want a referral option that aligns with those realities but understandably want to learn more before recommending a process they do not practice themselves. This free, on-demand Florida CLE (approved by the Florida Bar through July 31, 2027) was created specifically for lawyers who want to understand Collaborative Divorce well enough to confidently discuss it with the right clients, while earning CLE credit at the same time.

Quick Answer

You can earn 1.0 hour of Florida Bar–approved CLE credit for free by watching an on-demand program that explains how Collaborative Divorce works in Florida and when it may be an appropriate referral option for your clients.  Instantly access the CLE by filling out the form below.

Key Takeaways

  • Free registration and on-demand access
  • Florida Bar–approved CLE credit (1.0 hour)
  • Designed for lawyers considering referral options
  • Focused on privacy, confidentiality, and dignified resolution

Why This CLE Matters for Your Clients

Litigation is not wrong, but it is not right for every family. For clients whose lives or livelihoods could be impacted by public divorce proceedings, the process itself can be as damaging as the outcome.

Collaborative Divorce offers a way to resolve divorce privately, outside of court, with a structured team approach focused on resolution rather than escalation. This CLE gives you a clear framework for understanding when Collaborative Divorce may be a good fit and when it may not, so your referral decisions are informed rather than theoretical.

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Collaborative Divorce: What is “Material Information?”

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“Material information” sits at the heart of Collaborative Divorce because the entire process depends on both spouses having the facts they reasonably need to make informed decisions without a judge controlling the outcome. If you value privacy, dignity, and shared control with your spouse of outcome (rather than leaving your life in the hands of a judge), understanding what material information is and why it is important will help you decide whether Collaborative Divorce is right for you.

This issue matters most for professionals, executives, business owners, and others with complex finances or sensitive personal concerns and facing divorce. You want clarity about what must be shared, what can stay private, and how your lawyer protects you while honoring the ethical rules of the Collaborative Process.

Quick Answer: What Is Material Information in Collaborative Divorce?

Material information is information reasonably required for you and your spouse to make informed decisions about resolving your divorce.  In Collaborative Divorce, both spouses commit to sharing that information with each other and the professional team.

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Divorce Without Destroying Your Business: A Tampa Bay Guide for Owners

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Protecting Your Small Business in a Tampa Bay Divorce

If you built a business in Tampa, St. Petersburg, Sarasota, or elsewhere in Florida, it likely represents more than income. It reflects years of effort, risk, and identity. When divorce enters the picture, the fear of losing control of that business can feel overwhelming. You may worry about public court filings, forced valuations, or a judge who does not understand how your company actually works.

You are not wrong to worry. Traditional divorce litigation often puts small businesses at risk. Fortunately, there is a better way.

Quick Answer

You can protect your small business in a Tampa Bay divorce by using Collaborative Divorce, which keeps negotiations private, avoids court-imposed decisions, and allows tailored solutions that preserve business operations and long-term value.

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