Divorce Process

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What Is Collaborative Divorce?

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If you are exploring Collaborative Divorce in Florida, you are likely looking for a way to protect your privacy, preserve your wealth, and avoid a judge controlling your future.  The video and transcript below explains how it works and why many professionals in Tampa Bay and throughout Florida choose this approach.

Quick Answer

Collaborative Divorce is a private, out-of-court process where you and your spouse work with your own lawyers and a professional team to reach a resolution without fighting in court.

Key Takeaways

  • Collaborative Divorce keeps your personal and financial details out of the public record
  • You and your spouse remain in control of the outcome, not a judge
  • Each spouse has their own lawyer for independent legal advice
  • The process uses a team approach, including a Facilitator and Financial Professional
  • If the process breaks down, the Collaborative attorneys must withdraw
  • About 85% of Florida Collaborative cases in a 2014–2024 analysis reached full resolution
  • It is especially well-suited for professionals who value privacy, efficiency, and control

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How Do I Divorce In Florida?

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Quick Answer

The main ways to divorce in Florida are litigation, mediation, and Collaborative Divorce, and the right choice depends on how much privacy, control, and cooperation you want in the process. In the video below, I walk you through these options, and the full transcript is provided beneath it for your convenience.

Summary Box / Key Takeaways

  • Litigation is public, slow, and controlled by a judge
  • Mediation is private and generally best for short-term marriages or simple finances
  • Collaborative Divorce keeps everything private with you and your spouse in control of decisions
  • About 85 percent of Florida Collaborative cases reach full resolution
  • Choosing the right process can shape your financial and personal future

If you are like many professionals, business owners, or executives in Tampa Bay and throughout Florida, you are not just looking for a divorce. You are looking for a thoughtful, private way to move forward without a judge controlling the outcome or your personal life becoming part of the public record.  The video below discusses the different ways you can divorce in Florida.

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Free Florida CLE for Lawyers: Learn When to Refer Clients to Collaborative Divorce

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Collaborative Divorce offers Florida lawyers, regardless of practice area or professional setting, a private and discreet referral option for clients facing divorce, and you can earn free Florida Bar CLE credit while learning how to determine when that referral makes sense.

As a lawyer, you are often the first professional a client turns to when divorce becomes unavoidable. When that client is a lawyer, physician, executive, business owner, LGBTQ+ professional, public figure, the stakes are higher. Courtroom exposure, public filings, and escalated conflict can affect careers, reputations, businesses, and families in lasting ways.

Many lawyers want a referral option that aligns with those realities but understandably want to learn more before recommending a process they do not practice themselves. This free, on-demand Florida CLE (approved by the Florida Bar through July 31, 2027) was created specifically for lawyers who want to understand Collaborative Divorce well enough to confidently discuss it with the right clients, while earning CLE credit at the same time.

Quick Answer

You can earn 1.0 hour of Florida Bar–approved CLE credit for free by watching an on-demand program that explains how Collaborative Divorce works in Florida and when it may be an appropriate referral option for your clients.  Instantly access the CLE by filling out the form below.

Key Takeaways

  • Free registration and on-demand access
  • Florida Bar–approved CLE credit (1.0 hour)
  • Designed for lawyers considering referral options
  • Focused on privacy, confidentiality, and dignified resolution

Why This CLE Matters for Your Clients

Litigation is not wrong, but it is not right for every family. For clients whose lives or livelihoods could be impacted by public divorce proceedings, the process itself can be as damaging as the outcome.

Collaborative Divorce offers a way to resolve divorce privately, outside of court, with a structured team approach focused on resolution rather than escalation. This CLE gives you a clear framework for understanding when Collaborative Divorce may be a good fit and when it may not, so your referral decisions are informed rather than theoretical.

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Transgender Divorce in Florida: Why Privacy and Control Matter More Than Ever

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Going through a divorce is hard enough. When you are transgender, it can feel even heavier. You may worry about being judged, misunderstood, or reduced to a label at the very moment you need stability and respect. You may also fear losing control over decisions that will shape your future, your finances, and your relationship with your children.

In Florida’s current political and cultural climate, many transgender clients feel under constant scrutiny. In that context, privacy is not just comforting. It is essential.

At Family Diplomacy: A Collaborative Law Firm, we have extensive experience helping transgender clients across Florida choose a divorce process that protects dignity, discretion, and self-determination. We have offices by appointment in Tampa, St. Petersburg, and Sarasota, and we utilize Zoom so we can accept clients in every county in Florida.

Quick Answer

If you are transgender and going through divorce in Florida, Collaborative Divorce allows you to protect your privacy, avoid being judged by a court, and keep control over parenting and financial decisions, with experienced guidance from Family Diplomacy and Adam B. Cordover.

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FAQs – Collaborative Divorce in Florida: What You Need to Know

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When you or your spouse is a professional going through a divorce, your priorities are clear. You want to protect your family and privacy, avoid the public spectacle of a courtroom, and ensure that your complex financial life is handled with care. Collaborative Divorce offers an approach designed with those very concerns in mind. Below are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about Collaborative Divorce that you may be wondering about.

Why is there a Disqualification Clause, and How does it Help You?

One of the things that makes Collaborative Divorce unique is the disqualification clause. In essence, this means that if either spouse decides to go to court or end the process, both Collaborative Attorneys and other team members must withdraw. At first glance, you may wonder why this makes sense. In reality, it’s a protective measure. The clause creates a strong incentive for everyone involved to stay committed to reaching an agreement rather than end up where nobody wants to go: fighting in court. Instead of treating Collaboration as a stepping-stone to litigation, you and your spouse know that the only path forward with your lawyers is to resolve matters respectfully and privately by agreement.

In my experience, this clause is one of the strongest safeguards against escalation. It helps keep conversations solution-focused and mitigates against the likelihood that the case will spin out of control into the courtroom battles you hear about on the news.

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Divorcing Wealthy in Florida

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What is the best way to end up wealthy after divorce?  It is by being even wealthier before divorce.  The truth is that divorce is not cheap.  But there are things that you can do to help preserve your wealth even if your marriage is ending.

Retain a Neutral Financial Professional

One of the biggest challenges when going through divorce is that one spouse typically knows more about the family finances than the other spouse.  If you are the spouse with the knowledge, this can be frustrating because you feel you are making reasonable proposals that would benefit your spouse, and yet your spouse is outright rejecting them or refuses to make a decision, costing your family even more time and money.  If you are the spouse without knowledge of the family finances, you feel like your spouse is trying to control you by badgering you to agree to their proposal, but how can you even make a decision that could have disastrous consequences for your long term financial future?

This is where a Neutral Financial Professional comes in.

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Defining “Collaborative Mediation”

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If you do a Google search for “Collaborative Mediation,” you will get all sorts of results, many of which have nothing to do with one another.  Many articles simply point out the differences between Collaborative Divorce and Mediation (one of my blog posts would be included with this group).

Other articles will use the term to be a synonym with Collaborative Divorce, referring to neutral professionals (typically a financial professional and licensed mental health professional) as mediators, even if those professionals have not been trained as mediators.  This seems misleading to me.   Still, other articles use the term to mean a friendly mediation or an interdisciplinary co-mediation where lawyers are optional.  I have concerns about those articles because, despite using the term “collaborative,” what they describe is not a Collaborative Law Process as defined by the Florida Statutes or Uniform Collaborative Law Act/Rules.  Again, this is misleading.

Img 8446 - Family Diplomacy | A Collaborative Law FirmI recently was at the 12th Annual Conference of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals (“FACP”) where I presented on the topic of “Collaborative Mediation: Engaging Mediators in the Collaborative Process.”  My co-presenters were Heather McArthur, co-founder and president of Collaborative Professionals of Central Florida and Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Law Mediator, and Keith Grossman, a Florida Supreme Court Approved Primary Family Mediation Trainer and president of the Southwest Florida Collaborative Professionals Association.

As I have not found a good definition anywhere else, one of my goals in co-presenting on this topic (and writing this article) was to define the term “Collaborative Mediation.”  Additionally, I hoped to shed light on this distinct model of Collaborative Practice, find a way to better engage mediators in the Collaborative Process, and offer an option under certain circumstances that could bring more clients and lawyers into the Collaborative Method.

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Child Support in Florida

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Child support in Florida is the financial obligation aimed to provide a fair and consistent means of sharing the costs of raising a child between separated parents. There’s a Collaborative Law process that offers an alternative way to address child support matters. This approach emphasizes cooperation, open communication, and prioritizing your child’s well-being. In this post, we’ll take you through the fundamentals of child support in Florida and the benefits of pursuing child support solutions through the Collaborative Process.

CALCULATING CHILD SUPPORT

In Florida, you’ll find child support guidelines laid out in Florida Statutes §61.30. You’ll notice that the calculation takes into account key factors like your income and your partner’s income, the number of children involved, and the time each of you spends with them. It’s essential to understand that the state utilizes a specific formula incorporating these elements to calculate the exact amount of child support owed.  Though you may deviate from these calculations under certain circumstances, the child support guidelines determine the default amount you can expect to pay or be paid.

CONSIDERING YOUR INCOMES

Remember, both your incomes play a pivotal role in calculating child support. It’s worth noting that not all types of income are straightforward (for example, income from a private business). Additionally, it’s important to keep in mind that if either of you is voluntarily unemployed or not fully utilizing your earning capacity, income may be attributed to you based on your potential earning capacity.

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Can I Get A Discount For Virtual Divorce Legal Services?

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If you are facing divorce and have done your research, you probably realize how expensive divorce can be.  Not only are you charged for your attorney’s time spent engaging in the actual legal work, but it is also common practice for you to be charged for travel time to go to hearings, mediation sessions, or Collaborative Divorce meetings at the lawyer’s regular hourly rate.  Further, firms that practice mainly in person incur additional expenses including leasing larger office space, renting additional equipment, and purchasing additional office snacks, drinks, and supplies.  And, of course, those expenses get passed on to you, the client.

But what if you were comfortable working with your lawyer through Zoom, telephone calls, e-mails, and other virtual means, and you did not feel the need to meet in person?  Since it ends up costing less for the law firm, shouldn’t you get a discount for virtual divorce legal services?

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A Quicker Way To Divorce – Quickie Divorce

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One of the most painful aspects of the traditional divorce process is that it seems to drag on forever. Clients are hauled through case management conferences, temporary relief hearings, depositions, motion hearings, pre-trial conferences, and, finally, oftentimes years later, trial.

But this does not need to be the way you go through one of the toughest times of your life.  There is a quicker way to divorce.

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