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Face-to-Face Mediation

February 11, 2016/0 Comments/in Divorce, Mediation, Mediation Help //Tags: child custody, child support, collaborative mediation, dissolution of marriage, divorce, face-to-face mediation, marital settlement agreement, mediation, parenting plan, time-sharing, time-sharing scheduleby Adam

I have noticed lately that there is a trend among divorce mediators in Tampa Bay: keep spouses separate from one another.  This is known as “caucus”-style mediation, where the spouses are kept in separate rooms from the very beginning of mediation, and the mediator travels back and forth between the rooms relaying information and offers.

There is a good reason why many great mediators prefer caucus-style mediation.  As divorce is a highly-emotional process, spouses can set each other off when they are facing one another, and negotiations can descend into argument and cease being productive.

I can see where caucus-style mediation may be appropriate for some families, but it is not my preferred method.

Acordover_LogoRather, when I act as the neutral mediator, I prefer to practice face-to-face mediation.

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Tampa Prenuptial Agreements: Collaborative-Style

May 18, 2013/0 Comments/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: collaborative attorney, collaborative facilitator, collaborative family law, collaborative financial professional, Collaborative Law, collaborative marriage planning, collaborative mental health professional, collaborative practice, marital settlement agreement, postmarital agreement, postnuptial agreement, premarital agreement, prenuptial agreement, Tampa Bay Collaborative Family Lawby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Potential clients come into my Tampa office all the time to learn about prenuptial agreements, how they can protect interests, and how they can provide for a more certain future.

For all these clients, I suggest that they utilize the collaborative method when developing a prenuptial agreement with their future spouse.

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Tampa Bay Collaborative Divorce In A Weekend

May 5, 2013/0 Comments/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: alimony, child custody, child support, collaborative attorney, collaborative divorce, collaborative facilitator, collaborative family law, collaborative financial professional, Collaborative Law, collaborative mental health professional, collaborative practice, divorce, florida divorce, marital settlement agreement, parenting plan, Tampa Bay Collaborative Divorce, Tampa Bay Collaborative Family Law, uncontested divorceby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

I recently came across an article by Sandra Young and Brian Garvey, collaborative divorce lawyers in Illinois, who offer what they refer to as a “Divorce Weekend.”  This is a fascinating model of collaborative divorce which offers the option of a quick settlement, and there is no reason why a weekend collaborative divorce cannot take place here in Tampa Bay.

This is how the model works:

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Appellate Judges Discuss Collaborative Divorce in Meeting of Hillsborough and Pinellas Family Law Attorneys and Judges

April 13, 2012/1 Comment/in Collaborative Divorce, Family Law News //Tags: 13th Judicial Circuit, 6th Judicial Circuit, child custody, Clearwater, collaborative divorce, Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, divorce, Hillsborough County, marital settlement agreement, mediation, parental responsibility, parenting plan, Pinellas County, Second District Court of Appeals, St. Petersburg, Tampa, time-sharingby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

I recently had the opportunity to attend a joint meeting of the Tampa Bay Family Law Inn of Court and Pinellas County’s Canakaris Inn of Court.  The guest speakers were three judges from Florida’s Second District Court of Appeals:  Chris Altenbernd, Edward C. LaRose, and Robert Morris.  I had the opportunity to discuss collaborative divorce with the appellate judges.  The following excerpt of a Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay article describes a portion of the meeting and my discussions:

 Judge Chris Altenbernd (who served as chief judge from 2003-2005) observed that, by the time divorce and paternity cases reach the appellate level, both parties have almost invariably already lost:

“You have families that are being torn apart, and the parties are arguing often for the sake of arguing, not putting children’s issues and the families’ financial future first.”

Judges Edward C. LaRose and Robert Morris agreed.

The Second D.c.a.'s Judge Chris Altenbernd And Cditb Membership Chair Adam B. Cordover Discuss Collaborative Divorce (April 4, 2012)

The Second D.C.A.’s Judge Chris Altenbernd and CDITB Membership Chair Adam B. Cordover Discuss Collaborative Divorce (April 4, 2012)

Judge LaRose then asked the attorneys in the audience whether collaborative practice was being utilized in Pinellas and Hillsborough counties. Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay membership chair Adam B. Cordover answered their question. “The practice of collaborative family law is growing in Tampa Bay. Last year, the Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay provided training to instruct more attorneys, mental health professionals, and financial experts on how to handle collaborative divorce cases in a way that is private, individually-tailored, respectful, and takes into account the best interests of any children involved.  In short, we collaborative professionals are carrying out the ideal of ‘therapeutic jurisprudence.’”

Judge Altenbernd later relayed to Mr. Cordover that he supports the collaborative process, especially in divorce cases where issues of child custody and parenting plans are involved.  ”I just think more people need to seriously consider the family-focused process of collaborative divorce rather than fight it out in the court system.”

Attorney Adam B. Cordover has completed advanced training in interdisciplinary collaborative family law.  He is on the Board of the Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.

If you have questions regarding collaborative divorce and you wish to speak with a Tampa Bay collaborative attorney, contact The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover, P.A., at (813) 443-0615 or by completing our online form.

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Does Florida Have A Waiting Period For Divorce?

March 30, 2012/0 Comments/in In Court Divorce, Divorce, Florida Statutes //Tags: collaborative divorce, dissolution of marriage, divorce, Florida Statutes, marital settlement agreement, uncontested divorceby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Oftentimes when potential clients come into my office for a consultation, I get asked the following question:  “Does Florida have a waiting period for divorce?”

In fact, Florida does have a waiting period.

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Potential Disadvantages of Collaborative Law

November 30, 2011/1 Comment/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: collaborative divorce, Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, divorce, marital settlement agreement, mediation, uncontested divorceby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Though I have advocated the use of the collaborative process in family law cases (for example, here, here, and here), it is only fair to note that there may be disadvantages to a collaborative law case.  Jon Crouch over at The Family Law New Blog explores some of those potential disadvantages:

1. In litigation, you can use the timing and immense stress and fear of impending trials to get people to sign settlements they never would agree to if they actually had time to consider them.

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Video: Divorce TV – Collaborative Divorce Part 3

September 30, 2011/0 Comments/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: child custody, collaborative divorce, Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, divorce, marital settlement agreement, mediationby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Attorney Adam B. Cordover has completed advanced training in interdisciplinary  collaborative family law and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and the Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay.

If you would like to speak with a collaborative lawyer and learn how the collaborative process can help your family, call The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover, P.A., at 813-443-0615 or fill out our contact form.

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Video: Divorce TV – Collaborative Divorce Part 2

September 30, 2011/0 Comments/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: child custody, collaborative divorce, Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, marital settlement agreement, mediationby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Attorney Adam B. Cordover has completed advanced training in interdisciplinary  collaborative family law and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and the Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay.

If you would like to speak with a collaborative lawyer and learn how the collaborative process can help your family, call The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover, P.A., at 813-443-0615 or fill out our contact form.

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Video: Divorce TV – Collaborative Divorce Part 1

September 30, 2011/0 Comments/in Collaborative Divorce //Tags: child custody, collaborative divorce, Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, divorce, marital settlement agreement, mediationby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Attorney Adam B. Cordover has completed advanced training in interdisciplinary  collaborative family law and is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and the Collaborative Divorce Institute of Tampa Bay.

If you would like to speak with a collaborative lawyer and learn how the collaborative process can help your family, call The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover, P.A., at 813-443-0615 or fill out our contact form.

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Keep Your Contact Information Current with the Clerk of the Court, Even After Your Family Law Case is Closed

July 13, 2011/0 Comments/in Divorce //Tags: 13th Judicial Circuit, 6th Judicial Circuit, alimony, divorce, family law procedure, Hillsborough County, marital settlement agreement, modification of final judgment, parenting plan, Pasco County, service of processby Adam B. Cordover, Attorney-at-Law

Let’s start with a simple proposition:  Each party involved in a family law case should make sure that the clerk of the court has updated contact information for that party.  It seems easy, but taking this small step could prevent big headaches in the future.

I have heard of cases where a party has moved in the middle of the case, did not inform anyone, then complained afterwards that he had not received notice of an important hearing.  I also have seen cases where a petitioner (the party initiating the case) provides the clerk with the wrong address for the respondent (the party responding to the petition), and the clerk sends information to the incorrect address for the entire duration of the case.

I have even encountered this scenario:  Parties get divorced.  In the final judgment, Husband is required to pay Wife alimony.  After the divorce, Wife moves to a different apartment in the same apartment complex.  Husband sends alimony payments to Wife’s old address, but they get delivered to the new addressed because Postal Worker knows and likes Wife (and especially the gift certificates to Best Buy that Wife gives to Postal Worker each Christmas).

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