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How Are Medical School Student Loans Handled In a Florida Divorce?

When you’re facing a divorce in Florida, one of the complex financial issues you might encounter is how to handle student loans, particularly medical school student loans. These debts can be substantial, often amounting to hundreds of thousands of dollars, and it’s natural to wonder how they will be treated during the divorce process. Understanding your options and rights is crucial, especially if you and your spouse are seeking a Collaborative Divorce, which focuses on finding amicable solutions privately rather than through a public divorce court battle.

Understanding Marital vs. Non-Marital Debt – Med School Loans

In Florida, the law distinguishes between marital and non-marital assets and debts. Marital debts are those incurred during the marriage, regardless of whose name they are in or who incurred them. Non-marital debts, on the other hand, are typically those incurred before the marriage or after the date of separation.

If you took out medical school loans before you were married, these debts are generally considered non-marital, meaning you would be solely responsible for them. However, if you took out the loans during the marriage, things get a bit more complicated.

Medical School Student Loans as Marital Debt

If your medical school student loans were taken out during your marriage, they will be considered marital debt. This means that both you and your spouse could be responsible for repaying them, even if it was taken out in only one spouse’s name.  If some student loans were taken out prior to the marriage and other medical school debt was taken out during the marriage, then some loans will likely be considered non-marital and other med school loans will be considered marital. In a traditional divorce, this could lead to a lengthy and contentious battle, especially if the loans are significant.  More commonly, especially in a Collaborative Divorce, only one spouse ends up taking responsibility for paying off the marital portion of the loans, while they also typically get something in return to offset the debt.  Alternatively, the other spouse may take on a different set of debts as an offset.

In a Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse have the opportunity to work together to find a fair and equitable solution. The Collaborative Process encourages open communication and cooperation, allowing both of you to express your concerns and preferences.

At the end of the day, a court will likely order, and most divorcing spouses agree on, an equal distribution of your family’s marital net worth.  So, for example, if your family has a total of $3 million in marital assets and $1 million in marital debts, equaling a net marital estate of $2 million, then likely each of you will end up with around a net worth of $1 million from the marital estate (though most people agree to an equal distribution of your marital assets/debts, you can also agree to an unequal distribution if it makes sense for your family or as an alternative to alimony).  For this reason, when determining how you are going to split your assets and debts, it is important to look at not just one debt, like medical school student loans, but at your family’s full financial picture.

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St. Petersburg Divorce Lawyer Review: “Absolutely Outstanding Service”

We are humbled every time a client takes the time out of their busy schedule to leave a review and let others know about their experience.  Below you will find a recent review left by a client on our St. Petersburg office Google Page:

Absolutely outstanding service from Adam and team at Family Diplomacy: A Collaborative Law Firm! From the very beginning, they demonstrated immense professionalism and empathy. They guided me through the entire process, explaining everything clearly and ensuring I understood my options. Their expertise and strategic approach led to a favorable outcome, and I couldn’t be more grateful. I highly recommend their services to anyone going through a difficult time like divorce. Thank you for your exceptional support and dedication!

As I am required to state by the Florida Bar, each circumstance is different, and we cannot guarantee any particular result.  But we sure would like to try!

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Kiplinger: “Think of Prenups and Postnups as Financial Planning Tools”

In an insightful article in Kiplinger, “Think of Prenups and Postnups as Financial Planning Tools,” Andrew Hatherly, a Chartered Retirement Planning Counselor, delves into how prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are not just for those planning for the worst.  Rather, they can be essential tools in financial planning, particularly for couples marrying later in life. This blog post discusses the contents of article, which you can read here.

When you think of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, what comes to mind? For many, it’s the idea of planning for a potential divorce. However, these agreements can be so much more than just a contingency plan—they can be crucial financial planning tools that help you and your partner start your marriage on solid ground, especially if you’re marrying later in life or have substantial assets.

Why Consider a Prenup or Postnup?

In today’s world, where financial independence is increasingly important, prenups and postnups (which is like a prenup, but it is signed after you are already married) offer a clear framework for managing your assets. Whether you’re entering a marriage with significant wealth, a business, or debts, these agreements provide clarity. They help you and your partner establish expectations and protect what matters most to you both.

If you’re getting married later in life, you likely have accumulated assets, retirement accounts, or even a business that you want to safeguard. A prenup or postnup can protect these assets and ensure they’re distributed according to your wishes, not just the default laws of your state. Additionally, if one or both of you have children from a previous marriage, a prenup or postnup can help ensure that they’re provided for.

Debts: A Growing Concern

Let’s not forget about debt. Whether it’s from student loans, credit cards, or a previous mortgage, debts are increasingly common. A prenup or postnup allows you to specify how these liabilities will be managed during your marriage. This means one partner isn’t left responsible for the other’s debts, which can alleviate a significant source of stress and conflict.

Financial Transparency and Communication

One of the biggest benefits of drafting a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement is the open financial dialogue it fosters between you and your partner. These agreements require both you and your fiancé/spouse to fully disclose their financial situation, including assets, debts, and income. This transparency can prevent future misunderstandings and ensure that you both are on the same page when it comes to money management.

It’s not just about protecting yourself; it’s about ensuring that your financial partnership is built on honesty and mutual respect. By having these discussions early on, you set the tone for how you’ll handle financial decisions throughout your marriage.

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Cordover Joins Sarasota Collaborative Family Law Professionals

Family Diplomacy managing attorney Adam B. Cordover has joined the Sarasota Collaborative Family Law Professionals (“SCFLP”) practice group.

About the Sarasota Collaborative Family Law Professionals

Sarasota Collaborative Family Law Professionals Cordover Scflp Logo Final Png 600 - Family Diplomacy | A Collaborative Law FirmSCFLP is similar to a local bar association (it is not a law firm), and it is a membership-based organization made up of independent lawyers, psychologist, therapists, accountants, and financial planners who believe that there are better alternatives to court-based divorce.  Specifically, the group educates professionals and the public about Collaborative Divorce and Family Law, and its members help families through the Collaborative Process.

As stated in the Sarasota group’s brochure, “All members of SCFLP have extensive experience in the area of family law. They are committed to the collaborative process and work together to reach a settlement on fair and equitable terms without the financial and emotional cost that often accompanies litigation. All members of SCFLP have extensive experience in the area of family law, and are licensed by their respective designated professional organization. Each completes the training required by the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP).”

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Cordover Presents on Collaborative Mediation for International Academy of Collaborative Professionals

On July 17, 2024 at 1:00 pm Eastern Time, Family Diplomacy managing attorney Adam B. Cordover will co-present a webinar on “Collaborative Mediation: Engaging Mediators in the Collaborative Process.”  The presentation is for the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and sponsored by OurFamilyWizard.

Adam’s co-presenters are Heather McArthur, co-founder and president of Collaborative Professionals of Central Florida and a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Law Mediator, and Keith Grossman, a Florida Supreme Court Approved Primary Family Mediation Trainer and president of the Southwest Florida Collaborative Professionals Association.

Adam’s Philosophy on Collaborative Divorce

Adam’s philosophy is that almost anybody going through divorce can benefit from a Collaborative Divorce, but that we professionals need to have as many tools as possible to help as many families as possible.  Rather than try to force a family into a particular model of Collaborative Practice, we should shape a model to meet that family’s needs.  Many Collaborative Lawyers have heard of models such as One-Coach/Neutral Facilitator, Two Coach, or Lawyer-Only.  This presentation will discuss a different model: Collaborative Mediation.

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Paralegal Divorce Mediation in Florida

Beginning in August 2024, Family Diplomacy will offer paralegal divorce mediation with our executive paralegal, Jennifer Gunnin.

Going through a divorce can be tough. You may feel sad, angry, and stressed. But there’s a way to make it easier. Jennifer, who has worked closely with divorcing clients at Family Diplomacy: A Collaborative Law Firm since 2013, can help.  If you are in Florida, here is why you may want to consider working with Jennifer in a paralegal divorce mediation.

Paralegal Divorce Mediation

First, Jennifer is a trained professional who has over a decade experience working with divorcing clients. She has seen some things. Like all mediators, she cannot give legal advice, but she can explain things in a simple way so you can understand and choose what common elements you want in your parenting plan and marital settlement agreement. One of her goals is to ensure that you don’t feel lost or confused about what’s happening.

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How We Review Your Prenuptial Or Postnuptial Agreement With You

Your fiancé or spouse’s lawyer has provided you with a prenuptial agreement or postnuptial agreement, and it is a behemoth.  It is common for these documents to be 30 to 60 pages of dense “legalese,” sometimes with hundreds or thousands of pages of additional financial disclosure.  Don’t just sign the agreement without understanding it!  It can have a significant impact on your rights in the event of divorce or the death of your spouse.  Further, these documents are rarely “take it or leave it,” and you can negotiate terms that address your needs.

This post discusses how we review and negotiate prenuptial agreements and postnuptial agreements for our clients.

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How to Legally Change Your Name in Florida: A Step-by-Step Guide

Are you considering changing your name in Florida? Whether it’s for personal, professional, or other reasons, the process can seem daunting. However, with a clear understanding of the steps involved and the assistance of an experienced attorney, you can navigate this legal procedure smoothly. Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you through the process.

Step 1: Meet the Residency Requirement

First and foremost, you must be a resident of Florida. The courts will require proof of your residency, such as a driver’s license, state ID, or utility bill.  Even if you were born outside of Florida, the Courts will grant current residents a legal name change.

Step 2: Fill Out A Name Change Worksheet

To initiate the name change process, it helps to complete a name change worksheet.  We can provide you with a copy of this form, which includes a checklist in plain English of all the information that you will need to gather for the petition for a legal name change. Among other things, you’ll need to provide your current name, the name you wish to adopt, and the reason for the change. Be honest and detailed, as the court will review your reasons thoroughly.  If you have trouble filling out the form, we can help you.

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Divorce & Adoption Lawyer Review: “Worth Their Weight In Gold”

We may not be the cheapest Tampa family law firm out there, but we work hard to get results tailored to our clients’ needs.

Below you will find a review recently left on our Google Tampa family law attorney page:

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Divorcing Wealthy in Florida

What is the best way to end up wealthy after divorce?  It is by being even wealthier before divorce.  The truth is that divorce is not cheap.  But there are things that you can do to help preserve your wealth even if your marriage is ending.

Retain a Neutral Financial Professional

One of the biggest challenges when going through divorce is that one spouse typically knows more about the family finances than the other spouse.  If you are the spouse with the knowledge, this can be frustrating because you feel you are making reasonable proposals that would benefit your spouse, and yet your spouse is outright rejecting them or refuses to make a decision, costing your family even more time and money.  If you are the spouse without knowledge of the family finances, you feel like your spouse is trying to control you by badgering you to agree to their proposal, but how can you even make a decision that could have disastrous consequences for your long term financial future?

This is where a Neutral Financial Professional comes in.

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