Beginning July 24, 2011, gay couples in New York will be able to apply for a marriage license. This will make New York the sixth and largest state to recognize gay marriage.
Florida, unlike New York, does not permit gay marriage, nor does it recognize civil unions. But there are things that partners can do to symbolize their love for one another and create certain rights and responsibilities. You just have to be creative.
Let me give you an example. One of the services that my firm offers is that we represent clients in name change matters. I have heard all different reasons why a client wants a name change, including that he or she (a) has done some things he or she is not proud of and wants to turn a new leaf, (b) wants to take on the qualities of a religious or historical figure by taking on part of that figure’s name, and (c) simply does not like his or her name.
One day, a young woman came in for a consultation, and she had a touching story to tell me. She said that she had been dating her partner for several years, and that they wanted to get married. But, of course, Florida does not permit gay marriage. However, this woman decided to declare her love and commitment by legally taking on her partner’s last name. I was able to guide her through the judicial process of symbolically affirming her dedication to her partner through a name change.