How do I get divorced?
Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, can be a difficult time in any person’s life. You may have questions regarding issues involving your children, such as custody (now referred to as time-sharing), decision-making authority, and child support. Further, you want to ensure that your property rights are secured. You may also want to know whether there are special considerations for a military divorce or an uncontested divorce. It is important to have a family law attorney who will advise you of your rights and listen to your needs.
Family Diplomacy recommends that any person going through divorce strongly consider utilizing the Collaborative Divorce process.
How does it work?
How does it work?
The traditional divorce process
Divorce Lawyer Reviews: “I felt empowered and more in control of my life and my divorce.”
Divorce can be one of the most turbulent times in your life, and so it makes me feel good when I can help clients gain a sense of empowerment and stability. Lawyer Adam Cordover | Lawyer Divorce In a recent review on Avvo.com, a former client of mine discusses how our firm and the collaborative process helped her take back control of her life. FLORIDA BAR NOTICE: Please note that every case is different, and that you may not receive the same or similar results. (more…)
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Four Questions to Ask a Collaborative Divorce Lawyer
More and more people are deciding that they want to avoid the traditional adversarial divorce court system and instead handle their family law matter privately and respectfully via the collaborative process. In collaborative divorce, each spouse receives independent legal advice from his or her own attorney, and the attorneys are retained solely for the purpose of reaching an out-of-court agreement. Oftentimes, experts will be brought in to help with parenting or financial issues. As collaborative divorce is becoming more popular and since Florida Governor Rick Scott signed the Collaborative Law Process Act in March 2016, more attorneys who are steeped in the old system of divorce court are now advertising that they offer collaborative services. The issue is that the skillset needed to successfully help clients reach dignified agreements in collaborative practice is very different than the skillset needed to be an aggressive trial lawyer. Below are four questions you should ask any attorney you are interviewing to possibly represent you in the collaborative divorce process. (more…)
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Divorce Lawyer Client Review: A Complicated Divorce Goes Collaborative
Recently, I came across a very complicated divorce matter where two women had been battling in the court system for six years, even before the State of Florida recognized their marriage. One of the women ended up firing her aggressive trial attorney and hiring me because I offered an alternative: collaborative divorce. Once everyone agreed to stop fighting, we were able to reach an agreement within just a few months' time. Lawyer Adam Cordover | Top Attorney Divorce That client, Pattie, recently wrote a touching review about my paralegal, Jennifer, and I at avvo.com. You can find the review below. As I am required to note by the Florida Bar, please understand that every case is different, and you may not receive the same or similar results. The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover & Staff are amazing, professional caring people. Please know that I don’t mean for this review to be long or boring, my intent is to shed hope & shine light into your present life from my past experience and situation. My situation was very complicated from the start being a same sex marriage which for years was not recognized in the State of Florida until January 2015 and...
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Freezing High Conflict Divorce Litigation for the Collaborative Process
I strongly suggest that any person who is in the initial stages of a Florida divorce consider engaging in the collaborative process from the very beginning. This simply means that each spouses hires an attorney solely for the purpose of helping them reach a divorce agreement. The attorneys are contractually prohibited from wasting time and money on preparing for trial (90% or so of all divorce cases settle, yet millions and millions of dollars are spent each year preparing for a trial that rarely happens). Discussions are held in a private, respectful, and transparent atmosphere, and other professionals are brought in as needed to tend to the parties' financial and emotional needs. But some clients are resistant to the collaborative process because of perceived cost issues or they feel they need to have a gunslinger to take out their spouse. And many attorneys will not engage in the collaborative process because litigation work is pretty profitable or they have not invested the time and money in taking an introductory collaborative training. And so there are plenty of divorce battles going on in the Florida court system. It is not uncommon for those battles to go on for two, three, four, or more years, and for the parties to...
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Special Issues in Military Divorce
If you are in a family law matter involving a servicemember, you will encounter some unique issues to which you must pay special attention. Residency Requirement Generally, one party to a divorce must have been a resident of Florida for at least six months prior to filing. However, there is an exception for servicemembers. A servicemember (or his or her spouse) who is not currently in Florida may petition for divorce in Florida if he or she (i) was a Florida resident prior to entering the military and (ii) never established a permanent residence elsewhere. Even if the military member had not lived in Florida prior to entering the service, he or she may still be able to file for divorce in Florida if he or she is deployed but has an intent to remain a permanent Florida resident. Such intent may be evidenced by the following: (i) Florida voter registration; (ii) ownership of a Florida home; or (iii) registration of a vehicle in Florida. Servicemembers Civil Relief Act Many of the military issues in a divorce stem from the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (the "SCRA"). The SCRA was signed into law in 2003 and updated and replaced the Soldiers and Sailors'...
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Collaborative divorce - a healthier way
Mediation - What is it and how can it help me?
Do we have to go to court?
Do we have to go to court?
What can we do to keep our divorce private?
What documents need to be filed?
My spouse and I are getting along. How can we do this faster at less cost?
How can we do this faster at less cost?
Can we do mediation without lawyers?
If we already know what we want, can you just write up the agreement?
Will you review my documents?
How long does a divorce take?
Which process is the best?
Divorce Lawyer Reviews: “I felt empowered and more in control of my life and my divorce.”
Divorce can be one of the most turbulent times in your life, and so it makes me feel good when I can help clients gain a sense of empowerment and stability. Lawyer Adam Cordover | Lawyer Divorce In a recent review on Avvo.com, a former client of mine discusses how our firm and the collaborative process helped her take back control of her life. FLORIDA BAR NOTICE: Please note that every case is different, and that you may not receive the same or similar results. (more…)
Read More
Four Questions to Ask a Collaborative Divorce Lawyer
More and more people are deciding that they want to avoid the traditional adversarial divorce court system and instead handle their family law matter privately and respectfully via the collaborative process. In collaborative divorce, each spouse receives independent legal advice from his or her own attorney, and the attorneys are retained solely for the purpose of reaching an out-of-court agreement. Oftentimes, experts will be brought in to help with parenting or financial issues. As collaborative divorce is becoming more popular and since Florida Governor Rick Scott signed the Collaborative Law Process Act in March 2016, more attorneys who are steeped in the old system of divorce court are now advertising that they offer collaborative services. The issue is that the skillset needed to successfully help clients reach dignified agreements in collaborative practice is very different than the skillset needed to be an aggressive trial lawyer. Below are four questions you should ask any attorney you are interviewing to possibly represent you in the collaborative divorce process. (more…)
Read More
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Divorce Lawyer Client Review: A Complicated Divorce Goes Collaborative
Recently, I came across a very complicated divorce matter where two women had been battling in the court system for six years, even before the State of Florida recognized their marriage. One of the women ended up firing her aggressive trial attorney and hiring me because I offered an alternative: collaborative divorce. Once everyone agreed to stop fighting, we were able to reach an agreement within just a few months' time. Lawyer Adam Cordover | Top Attorney Divorce That client, Pattie, recently wrote a touching review about my paralegal, Jennifer, and I at avvo.com. You can find the review below. As I am required to note by the Florida Bar, please understand that every case is different, and you may not receive the same or similar results. The Law Firm of Adam B. Cordover & Staff are amazing, professional caring people. Please know that I don’t mean for this review to be long or boring, my intent is to shed hope & shine light into your present life from my past experience and situation. My situation was very complicated from the start being a same sex marriage which for years was not recognized in the State of Florida until January 2015 and...
Read More
Freezing High Conflict Divorce Litigation for the Collaborative Process
I strongly suggest that any person who is in the initial stages of a Florida divorce consider engaging in the collaborative process from the very beginning. This simply means that each spouses hires an attorney solely for the purpose of helping them reach a divorce agreement. The attorneys are contractually prohibited from wasting time and money on preparing for trial (90% or so of all divorce cases settle, yet millions and millions of dollars are spent each year preparing for a trial that rarely happens). Discussions are held in a private, respectful, and transparent atmosphere, and other professionals are brought in as needed to tend to the parties' financial and emotional needs. But some clients are resistant to the collaborative process because of perceived cost issues or they feel they need to have a gunslinger to take out their spouse. And many attorneys will not engage in the collaborative process because litigation work is pretty profitable or they have not invested the time and money in taking an introductory collaborative training. And so there are plenty of divorce battles going on in the Florida court system. It is not uncommon for those battles to go on for two, three, four, or more years, and for the parties to...
Read More
Special Issues in Military Divorce
If you are in a family law matter involving a servicemember, you will encounter some unique issues to which you must pay special attention. Residency Requirement Generally, one party to a divorce must have been a resident of Florida for at least six months prior to filing. However, there is an exception for servicemembers. A servicemember (or his or her spouse) who is not currently in Florida may petition for divorce in Florida if he or she (i) was a Florida resident prior to entering the military and (ii) never established a permanent residence elsewhere. Even if the military member had not lived in Florida prior to entering the service, he or she may still be able to file for divorce in Florida if he or she is deployed but has an intent to remain a permanent Florida resident. Such intent may be evidenced by the following: (i) Florida voter registration; (ii) ownership of a Florida home; or (iii) registration of a vehicle in Florida. Servicemembers Civil Relief Act Many of the military issues in a divorce stem from the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (the "SCRA"). The SCRA was signed into law in 2003 and updated and replaced the Soldiers and Sailors'...
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Once an agreement is written and signed, how soon can I get in front of a judge?
What can I do to speed up my divorce?


