Tag Archive for: confidential divorce

Families Don’t Belong In Court

 

Families don’t belong in court, especially when privacy, dignity, and the best interests of children matter to you. Yet for decades, lawyers have treated the courtroom as the default place to resolve divorce.

Court is built to impose an outcome after pitting parties against each other. Divorce is about navigating a family transition. Those are not the same thing, and when we confuse them, families often pay the price.

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Families don’t belong in court because the adversarial system escalates conflict, makes private matters public, and allows a judge to impose life-shaping decisions.  It is a terrible forum if you want to protect privacy, preserve dignity, or support children during a family transition.

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Collaborative Divorce: What is “Material Information?”

“Material information” sits at the heart of Collaborative Divorce because the entire process depends on both spouses having the facts they reasonably need to make informed decisions without a judge controlling the outcome. If you value privacy, dignity, and shared control with your spouse of outcome (rather than leaving your life in the hands of a judge), understanding what material information is and why it is important will help you decide whether Collaborative Divorce is right for you.

This issue matters most for professionals, executives, business owners, and others with complex finances or sensitive personal concerns and facing divorce. You want clarity about what must be shared, what can stay private, and how your lawyer protects you while honoring the ethical rules of the Collaborative Process.

Quick Answer: What Is Material Information in Collaborative Divorce?

Material information is information reasonably required for you and your spouse to make informed decisions about resolving your divorce.  In Collaborative Divorce, both spouses commit to sharing that information with each other and the professional team.

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