What is a Florida Parenting Plan? Creating a Bright Future.
If you are facing divorce, understanding a Florida parenting plan is one of the most important steps you can take to protect your children, your privacy, and your peace of mind. The video and transcript below discusses parenting plans and how Collaborative Divorce can be a better pathway to develop one.
Quick Answer
A Florida parenting plan is a written document required in every divorce or family law matter involving kids that explains how you and your co-parent will raise your children after separation, including decision-making and time-sharing.
Summary Box / Key Takeaways
- A parenting plan is required in every Florida divorce involving minor children
- It covers decision-making and time-sharing schedules
- You can customize the plan to fit your family’s needs
- It helps reduce conflict by creating clear expectations
- Collaborative Divorce offers a private, structured way to create a thoughtful plan
Video and Transcript: What Is a Florida Parenting Plan?
Introduction
So what is a Florida parenting plan? I’m Adam B. Cordover, a collaborative divorce attorney here in Tampa Bay. A parenting plan is a written document required in every Florida divorce involving minor children. It explains how you and your co-parent will work together to raise your children after separation.
Decision-Making and Time-Sharing in a Florida Parenting Plan
At a high level, it covers two main areas, decision-making and time-sharing. Decision-making means who makes major decisions for your children like education or health care. In the vast majority of cases, the parents must share this parental responsibility and must confer and agree on major decisions. On the other hand, day-to-day decisions such as what the kids eat or who they hang out with are usually just made by the parent with whom the kids are staying at the time. But practically, it’s always good for parents to try to be on the same page on those day-to-day decisions.
Time sharing, which used to be known as physical custody, is the schedule that determines when your children are staying overnight with each parent. As parents, you can agree to whatever schedule you like, but the default under Florida law is that the kids spend 50 % of overnights with each of you.
A parenting plan also includes details that matter in real life. That means working out schedules for holidays, birthdays, and school breaks. It may also address travel out-of-state or trips abroad. It can even include communication rules and exchange logistics. Most importantly, it can be tailored to your family’s unique needs.
For example, one family may alternate Christmas so the kids are with one parent in odd years and the other parent in even years. Another family may decide Christmas Day is important to one parent and Christmas Eve is important to the other parent. And so the holiday break is split each year.
Flexibility and Customization
Your family can even create new traditions that work better for everyone. In other words, there is no one size fits all approach.
The goal of a parenting plan is to reduce confusion and prevent future conflict. It creates clear expectations, so both parents stay focused on what matters most your kids. As I like to say, there is no parenting plan police. So if you both agree in the future that you want to do something different than what it says in the parenting plan, you have that flexibility. But in the event of future disagreement, the parenting plan remains the default.
Collaborative Divorce – Working with a Neutral Facilitator as a Better Way to Craft a Parenting Plan
One thing to note is that in traditional divorce, a parenting plan is generally negotiated through lawyers or decided by a judge after a lengthy public adversarial trial. Fortunately, in my opinion, there’s a better way to come up with a parenting plan.
In Collaborative Divorce, parents oftentimes work side by side with a neutral facilitator. The facilitator is a licensed mental health professional trained in communication, childhood development, and family dynamics. The facilitator helps keep discussions productive, future-focused, and child-focused. They also help you design a parenting plan that fits the developmental needs of your children and is not just some off-the-shelf template that will impact your children’s future.
This approach is oftentimes more efficient and less expensive than fighting things out in court, and far more tailored to your kids’ needs. And all of this happens privately, far from the public spectacle of the courthouse.
Support for Busy Professionals
If you’re a busy professional like a physician, attorney, or business owner having that kind of structured support can make this process more manageable and bring you peace of mind.
Now I understand parenting plans can feel overwhelming at first but you don’t have to figure this out alone. With the right guidance. You can create a plan that truly works for your family. In my work with families across Florida. I have seen how a thoughtful parenting plan can make a lasting difference for both parents.
To learn more about your divorce options, including collaborative divorce, we invite you to schedule a virtual planning meeting by calling us at 813-443-0615 or visiting our website at https://FamilyDiplomacy.com. We work with clients in every county in Florida, and have offices available by appointment in Tampa, St. Petersburg, and Sarasota.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Florida Parenting Plans
Do we have to follow the parenting plan exactly?
No, there is no parenting plan police, so if you both agree to do something different, you can deviate from the parenting plan. However, in the event of future disagreement, the parenting plan serves as the default and snaps back into place until further agreement or order of a court.
Can we customize our parenting plan?
Absolutely, you can customize your parenting plan. Florida law allows you to tailor your plan to fit your family’s schedule, traditions, values, and needs.
What if we cannot agree on a parenting plan?
In traditional litigation, a judge will decide for you. In Collaborative Divorce, you work with professionals to reach an agreement outside of court.
Is 50/50 time-sharing required?
It is the default starting point under Florida law, but families can agree to a different schedule based on what works best for the children.
Why Choose Family Diplomacy?
Family Diplomacy: A Collaborative Law Firm is different than every single other family law firm here in Tampa Bay. We don’t fight in court because we believe families don’t belong in court, and we specialize in Collaborative Divorce. Family Diplomacy managing attorney Adam B. Cordover is co-author of an American Bar Association book on Collaborative Family Law, a trainer who has travelled across 3 continents teaching Collaborative Divorce to judges and divorce professionals, and recipient of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals’ inaugural Visionary Award.
Next Steps: Learn How to Create a Parenting Plan That Works for Your Family
You do not have to leave something this important to chance or to a judge who does not know your family.
If you are in Tampa, St. Petersburg, Sarasota, or anywhere in Florida, you can take a more private and thoughtful approach.
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