I just came across an article that discusses a study from Florida State University researchers about how divorce affects a child’s future relationships. The researchers conclude that children of divorced parents are more likely to become divorced themselves for a myriad of reasons, including the fact that children learn relationship skills from their parents. The article states the following:
General information on dissolution of marriage
Section 61.08, Florida Statutes, and relevant case law, provides for several different types of alimony awards. The likelihood of receiving each type of award depends on several different factors, including the need of one spouse for support, the ability of the other spouse to pay for that support, and the length of the marriage. Below is a brief description of available types of alimony:
- Permanent Periodic Alimony– This type of alimony is regularly ordered for long-term marriages, defined as lasting for 17 years or more. However, it may be awarded in (i) medium-term marriages (7-16 years) depending on certain factors such as the contribution of each party during the marriage and the standard of living during the marriage or (ii) short-term marriages (up to 6 years) if there are exceptional circumstances, such as a spouse contracting a debilitating disease. As the name suggests, this award lasts for an indefinite amount of time and is paid on a regular basis. However, it may later be modified or terminated by court order if there is a substantial change in circumstances.
An article from Time Magazine recounts some horror stories and tales of caution emanating from the use of Facebook and other social networking sites.
A good general rule: don’t post anything that you would be embarrassed to have your grandmother see. This includes the following:
- Don’t harass the other party;
- Ensure that your friends are not harassing the other party;
- Don’t post negative comments about the other party on your profile page, and ask others to avoid the same;
Section 61.21 of the Florida Statutes requires each party in a case that involves children and custody/time-sharing issues to attend a four-hour parenting course. This “Parent Education and Family Stabilization Course” gives parents the opportunity to learn about, among other topics, how their court action may affect the emotional well-being of their children.
You should note that, except in very limited circumstances, a judge will not enter a final judgment until both parties have (i) attended the course and (ii) filed a certificate of completion with the clerk of the court.
It is always a good rule of thumb to be respectful when entering a courtroom. I often find myself taken aback by the appearance and behavior of people as they are asking a judge to make a major decision on serious issues–such as divorce, child support, alimony, or time-sharing–in their lives. Many people come in shorts, chew gum, and treat the courtroom like their living room. Such behavior leaves a poor impression on the judge and may impact the outcome of their matter.
The Family Law Division of the Thirteenth Judicial Circuit (Hillsborough County), like many courts around Florida, has a code of conduct: The Twelve Rules of Courtroom Civility. Most of these rules are simply about common courtesy, and include the following instructions:
- Other than to make appropriate objections, do not interrupt anyone when he or she is speaking;
- Do not make faces or gestures at the opposing party or his or her attorney;
- Dress appropriately and wear clean clothes. Specifically, you should not enter a courtroom in shorts, jeans, a t-shirt, or sneakers; and
- Do not bring any food or beverages in the courtroom, and do not chew gum.
To maximize the chances of a successful outcome in your matter, become familiar with the rules and procedures of both your circuit and your specific judge.
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